"I still like you, but I’m done chasing you."
smittenkitteninmittens wait, by guys or girls??
I like going to clubs cause I like dancing and dressing up and everything but the guys there are always such huge creeps. I hate dancing with guys. They don’t even dance, they just grind up against you and make things super awkward. I’d 100% rather just dance by myself or with my girl friends and for some reason no one understands that, and that’s an open invitation for the grossest guys in the world to act like they’re god’s gift to me and that they’re somehow saving me from being alone
For the most part last night I was able to avoid creeps by dancing with my friend and being in the security circle that my sister and her boyfriend so kindly made for me, but there was this one Ryan Gosling looking guy who came up behind me and put his hands on my waist and for a minute I was like okay, I can deal with this just so I’m not rude and pushing him away. But then he pulled me in super close and forced my hand, which was holding my friend’s hand cause we were dancing together, out of hers and his head was on my shoulder and he was trying to put his hand up my dress so I pulled away from him but he kept pulling me back til I forced him away and some guy next to me was like “poor guy, that was mean” like fuck you I didn’t invite some stranger to be all over me. Then I decided to go outside because it was a million degrees on the dance floor and he was following me til I somehow lost him in one of the halls
Idk I know this happens to every girl who goes out but for real if someone’s clearly not interested stay away
Oh and shout out to the guy who invited my friend and I back to his table. he was so drunk that while he was pouring our mixed cranberry drinks he forgot the alcohol and we ended up just drinking juice 👍